How much is to much??

TV I mean. I struggle with guilt. Has Kayla seen to much tv? I can't seem to get a good balance. I feel bad if I don't let her watch one more show, then I feel like I must be the worlds worst mother for letting her watch. Then I can't seem to find the energy to do a damn thing. We just moved into a new house last week but I cannot find the energy to take care of anything!! I am getting a major guilt trip from my mother who apparently doesn't think that a puppy and some toys is a enough stuff to get for Christmas. I personally think it's plenty, especially since the dog was $299! Grr. Anyway, I am 25 years old, married, and have a 4 year old little girl, a cat, and a Rat Terrier puppy(who is akc registered stud-what a stud!) and I have no idea what the hell I want to do. I feel bored almost everyday. Any suggestions???? I need friends too. I have no friends that are younger mothers, it is hard.